She would love to have a penpal, I have looked into the different penpal sites and the ones that I found wants ages 13 and up. We are from Ohio looking for a penpal from different parts of the US, also outside US (english or maybe english/spanish - she is just learning spanish)
Looking for snail-mail or e-mail pals. Either girls or boys.

Is there anyone that has a child intrested or know a website for under age 13 penpals?

Hi! I'm Lauren and I just turned 11. I'm nice and LOVE PENGUINS! I just finished 5 grade so I could help her on hard subjects. Hope I can help! My e-mail address is Puff_is_1@yahoo.com

Try this:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/postcardkids/

They have a database set up so you can request penpals or just to exchange postcards.

Hope that helps!
Seana

Hi! Pen pals are great, but be very careful trying to get one online! A suggestion I heard once was to get in touch with a cousin or distant cousin that lives in another state and wouldn't mind being your daughter's pen pal. I haven't actually done this, but it sounded like a very reasonable idea to me. Hope this helps!